Today is a special occasion for me and my siblings. For the
reason that, 28th of November is used to be our father’s natal day. But
unlike before, today’s celebration is so idyllic, peaceful and very private. The
simple family celebration yet so significant because of the family and relative’s
involvement, year by year, has slowly losing its strings of strength. I terribly
missed the times when our father’s birthdays were not entirely an event of grand
party but a chance for us to bond and eat together in the same table. Seven years
had passed since my father’s unexpected sudden demise due to heart attack, meant
seven years of celebration without the celebrant himself – the person who, for
a very long time, kept his siblings closed and attached from each others. Now,
that we have grown up as well as my sisters and brother had settled their own
family and had lived separately, November 28 has slowly becomes more of
individual commemoration for us rather than of single celebration. Currently,
my eldest sister and her family are living in the United States for good. My elder
sister as well as my younger brother with their own families are also living
separately back home (Philippines). And me, I am in the State of Qatar trying
my own luck of life. Our separate locations at present somehow provided us
slimmer chance to celebrate with each other together; however, I guess our individual
heartbeats and our memories were kept linked and connected. This is the thing I
am most proud of, no matter how far we live from each others, the knot that our
father uphold for years has remained tied – strong and is going stronger even
without the physical presence of the celebrant. I hope this kind of relationship
between us, including my sibling’s sons and daughters, will last eternally.
Today let me utter my special thanks to the “man of the hour.”
I will never get tired of celebrating your birthday even it’s already seven
years had passed since you have gone. Your legacy as a father to us and as a
husband to our mother will truly remain instilled in our heart and mind.
November 28 may be just an ordinary date to some but for us it is the day when another
legendary hero came to life.
Happy Birthday tabi Papa!